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Why am I quitting social media for a bit? Diario #4

I'm quitting social media except for WordPress and YouTube. Yes this post will automatically post to Facebook, twitter, and google + without me going to those sites itself.

Social media is getting to the point of complete annoyance. Almost everyone's post is someone is complaining about life, gloating about whatever that point in moment happened or something they ate or bought, taking trips, relationship shenanigans, and what not.

I try my best in relationships in putting effort towards it but not getting anything back. It's so annoying. No one goes directly to me to talk to me except through some third party to see how I'm doing which makes it even more annoying and erks me.

I know people has lives and lives to live. I'm not a loner at all so I'm cutting and testing relationships and see who actually cares. I know at least 3-5 people that actually do care.

So how well do you actually care about your relationships before it's too late and get the boot? How far will you go to save your relationships and friendships?

The Functional Unfunctionalist type of Day | Diario #2

Well, thanks to those who liked my post via Facebook, Twitter, Google+ or WordPress.

Today, was mostly good. Worked ten hours. I was able to do everything that the day brought. But at the same time my mind was like no you are not going to concentrate, be spacey, make your vision brighter, make your body feel cold, and everything will seem to be like you're on the ocean waves going back and forth. So, I felt pretty unfunctional while I was be functional all of today.

My body thinks I'm fully awake and want to do things but this awful constant headache that I've been having for a month or so is telling me to do something about it (as in to lay down, take medicine, and sleep or go to the doctors). I also hate taking medication because you can get addicted to just about anything.

I like working. I don't know what I would do if I didn't work. I'm not some sort of mental case that can't work. I'm capable of anything. Look at all the successful people who may have something wrong with them but it didn't stop them like Stephen Hawking, Stevie Wonder and Helen Keller.

Well, before I start rambling word vomit about why people are capable of things even if they have inner demons and what not. I just want to update you on how my day is going. I'll probably fall asleep later on and relax.

Unnecessary Censorships vs Culture Norms & Media

Seems like in every culture there are ways that we are influenced like censorships or censoring.

In each culture, we are brought up in a certain way and uniquely different. For example, some are brought up in a fast-paced environment, religious stand point, minimalistic, independently, group efforts, and etc.

For example, nudity. Nudity is an al naturale part of life and we deal with it on an everyday part of life. But when it comes to the tv or some media news outlets, the intimate areas of the body maybe blurred out depending on where you are at in the world. But, why be censored out when it’s an al naturale part of the human race? So, would it be an unnecessary censorship across all cultures?

Another example is foul language. Foul language maybe a part of the everyday talk for some. But why censor all foul language especially when it comes to media? Is it really that offensive? Maybe for some I suppose….

The last example I have would be the subject of the deceased. For example if the deceased have died in some horrific instance and the media would most likely not show the pictures/videos, and/or blacken or fuzz out the worst parts of the photo or video. But death is a natural thing. But, things maybe to upsetting to see, the loved ones of the deceased may not want the information leaked and want the person to be remembered in a better manner, and/or the “culture norms” of that country. Yea, not all deaths are horrific but some can be more on the peaceful side.

So, what else would you include in the unnecessary censorship?

Dear those who left me out

Hello to those who left me out,

You may remember me as that one person during school, ages ago, the one who you may want to have around on occasion. That one friend who you always put on the back-burner but never made time to make friends with. You seem to have wanted me when only you wanted me to get you something or borrow something. I don’t have a money tree. I tried putting my time and efforts forth into being yours but nothing back. It can get old with my time and effort and patience.

You think I was the person who was “quiet”, “shy”, or “anti-social” but have you actually tried to get to know me? I didn’t think so. You were busy with your life just like I was. We all have our own lives to live and things to achieve. We aren’t getting any younger and changing as life goes on. I am not as that “quiet, shy or anti-social” as you think.

You might of called me a friend while we were never together. So, how could we call ourselves friends if were never together?

I am doing just fine! Thanks for asking. I hope you are doing just as well?

I am finishing up the last leg of college and trying to find some work. Also, trying to fight an invisible illness from making me from not wanting to do much in life. But hey, conquering one thing at a time. I am figuring out who I am and trying to find my right path in life.

So, I think it was good that we have parted our own ways a while ago. We’ve been exploring the world or communities we live in and finding ourselves. But, it’s a small world we may make up time lost but you never know maybe it may or may not be just as well.

Live Long And Prosper

And hope we both find the right paths in life.

I hope it ends up just as well

From,

A person who needed someone around

Lost Time Forgotten

 

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Picture taken by UnSilentTheSilence (2014)

It seems as time goes on we sometimes forget about what we leave behind. Somethings we remember as well as somethings well forgetful. How can that be?

Somethings we remember because it maybe traumatic that may affected so many lives. Examples of remembrance would be like some extreme acts of Mother Nature and wars9-11,  Berlin Wall, Pearl Harbor, Chernobyl and the Concentration Camps.

    Some things we tend to forget or leave behind. What about the abandoned land, property, businesses, homes, and other types of property and could it become in use? What about the events throughout history? What about the asylums? What about those who live in poverty? What about those who don’t have access to everyday needs? Did (insert event/promise/help/etc here) ever happen or is going to happen? It seems like we tend to forget those things that may have a dark history to it. A dark history when there was experimentations going on, maybe some inhuman things, or even the turn-of-the-century was changing.

The questions are:
How can we bring back what is forgotten?
Is the forgotten gone for a purpose or accidental reasoning?
Is the forgotten gone because we just “forgotten” about it?
How could we just “forget” what is just forgotten?
Could we have done things differently?
Should we just leave history be history?
Could we change the future history for the better?
And so many more to ask…………………………………………..

Last leg of College life

So it’s that time of the year when you need to register for classes next semester. That one part of the same tradition of school. Classes.

I realized that right after taking that one summer course, I got one last semester. I remember registering for the capstone course and I was having that surreal moment. A lot of thoughts came to mind. Oh, this is the end. What am I going to do afterwards? Am I ready for the next step of adulthood? Dang it, I’m getting ready to graduate soon. Why? That soon? Oh my? Should I go on to grad school? Should I work to pay off student loans first before grad school? How far should I move away for work? When should I start applying for full time work? This is surreal right now? Oh, right!

It seems it is the last leg of college and the surreallness of it comes along with it. Adulthood, welcome! Time to prepare, kind of. I feel like I’m already there. Work, health stuff, other stuff, school and homework. 

Welcome to the last bit of college!